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Obama meets the Dahli Lama – – – Next The Dolly Nana?

Obama meets the Dahli Lama – – – Next The Dolly Nana?

Controversial Meeting with the Dalai Lama

So Obama met with the Dalai Lama this week and the Chinese were not happy about it.  Why should they be?  They think the U.S. is supporting the people of Tibet who refuse to accept the rule of the Chinese.  I do not pretend to know the intricacies of these relationships but it seems to me that although we espouse freedom, we get ourselves in trouble by not really supporting it – ie Egypt and the Middle East Spring, the Shah of Iran, etc.  But then there is also the other issue of our debt to China and the fact that we are beholding to them.  What?  Why?  When did we let this happen?

A Better Meeting for Obama…The Dolly Nana

The fact is that President Barack Obama would be better served if he met with The Dolly Nana and discussed ways to improve the future of our children.  Sure his kids are doing great but with roughly 10% of the US unemployed and another 15% underemployed, most kids are not doing so great.  Additionally, the debt that we are placing on their heads is oppressive and should be illegal.  True, he is not completely responsible for the financial situation we are in at this time but he asked for the job and he got it so he must be accountable.  Major, major changes are needed and it starts with the idea of spending what you earn.  Right now, our government is not earning much but distrust and cynicism.

In a recent discussion with my grandchildren I was taken aback by their reaction to the idea of  overwhelming debt.  One was very knowledgeable and angry.  Another was unaware and became visibly upset by the concept.  Of course it was who was upset and we spent several hours discussing how we got to this point and some options to solve the situation.  I am sure his thoughts are at least as valid as those of Obama or Congress.  If Obama met with the Dolly Nana, he would be charmed but  disarmed.  China would not care and there would be no repercussions.  So why not,  Mr. President?

Nana, Can I play your phone?

Nana, Can I play your phone?

When I first heard this request, I thought it was funny but now I am beginning to realize the change the once simple device has made in our lives and how “phone” is a total misnomer for the device that allows us to hold our world in the palm of our hand and to expand our braintrust exponentially!  With a simple google search or map request, we can avoid the pain and wasted moments of thinking and preparing.  With social media and text,   we no longer have to plan, consider others actions or even think ahead more than 3 minutes because we can just text them.  With mobile ads, businesses can target me based not only on my demographics, personal preferences and stated likes, they can know when I am conveniently located near their outlet.   With games, we can target our attention and eyes to a small focused area and concentrate on the eye hand coordination that makes Luke Skywalker battles believable and possible.

But should we let our kids “play our phones”?

From Christine Mallait’s blog on the subject  “One of the main ideas to consider about technology and children is: are they getting enough exposure to life outside of the one present inside a television, computer, cell phone, etc.? Back in the day (even ten years ago), children were outside climbing trees, playing sports like baseball in the park, or playing tag outside much more than today’s kids. The onset of technology into children’s lives has made playing Wii sports more desirable than playing soccer outside or going on the computer instead of going to the pool. While obviously children still find their ways into the great outdoors, there are more distractions for them now that video games, iPods, and cell phones have found themselves into the hands of today’s youth. Parents have begun buying into the “easy ways” to entertain children and televisions have become new-found babysitters. Is this necessarily the way the world should be – where technology obscures the great outdoors – especially in such nice weather during the summer? As well, what should the ground rules be for children and new gadgets?

My grandchildren are taught that too much TV, Computer, Wii, Technology will turn their “Brain to Mush”

What are your rules about technology and children?

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What does a 9 year old know about Profit Margins?

What does a 9 year old know about Profit Margins?

We had our four grandchildren for the weekend and were going out for dinner.  Naturally, my teenage granddaughter and I wanted to go to a restaurant for hamburgers, the boys wanted pizza and the 6 year old wanted dessert.  My husband, ever practical, convinced us all to go to the food court at  Costco but to make it fun, we called it “Chez Costco” the grandest restaurant in town.

We got a  huge 18″ pizza for $9.95some hot dogs and other things so that dinner for 6 was less than $30. My grandson was chowing down and having a grand ole time when suddenly he chimes in and declares “Costco must be the lowest margin business out there “.  “What”, I ask, “do you mean by margin?” Where upon he proceeds to tell me about margin being the difference in what something costs and how much you sell it for and that the pizza food cost was probably $9.25 and the soft drinks were probably only a 5% margin etc.  He actually calculated the cost and margin of every item we purchased and determined how much they made on us for the evening.  He was probably spot on.  I have never known him to be off by much.

We had a good time, saved a little money and when I am ready to open a new business, I know who I want to be by my side….

Looking Creepy

Looking Creepy

Friends of mine, Sandy and Bob, made a trip to Denver recently to see their 13-year old granddaughter perform in a school play.  After one performance of the play, there was a reception of sorts in the gym with hundreds of people present.  Not knowing anybody other than their immediate family and not wanting to get in the way of the activities, Bob and Sandy found a spot to stand in the far corner of the room and just watched the action.  Later that evening after they were  home, their granddaughter commented to them:  “The next time you are at my school, please don’t just stand there looking creepy.”

Sandy has no idea what she did to look “creepy”, and certainly has no idea how to look and be different next time so as to be more acceptable to her granddaughter.

Any ideas?